Drew Vision Talks “Date Beyond” & “Big Little Lies” for VDay 2025

First and foremost thank you!!!! Now I’m not sure if you are familiar with Comospolitan magazine, well this setup for V-day is that from a guy’s perspective

I love that you decided to bring up dating and relationships because as guys, we never really have the forum to really express that. With that being said what is your ideal first date and why….

 

 Yeah, men can never express! And we’re expected not to have feelings so for most of my life, I didn’t, but I’ve been tapped in lately. For a first date I think it should be something very casual because the stakes shouldn’t be high. My ideal first date is something in nature like a scenic walk or a picnic. The reason is because nobody should be spending money on someone you don’t know and also it shouldn’t be somewhere loud because I think the conversation is the most important thing. 

Is it ok to ask what your dating situation is like gender wise, and how do you really know if you’re attracted to that person or is it just lust. Because I have lusted, got stuck, and getting stalked and tryna figure out how it happened…..

WOW! Lusting got you stuck and stalked!! Sheesh I guess it could be worse but that’s scary.  I identify as pansexual so it’s not strictly about gender for me however if I’m going to go on a date it will be with a woman just because I think they like all that cheesy stuff and I don’t mind being a knight in shining armor haha I know if I’m attracted to them outside of lust when the balance of conversation flows evenly. That’s how someone can win me over when they’re considerate and not making it all about themselves. A lot of times in conversation people don’t even notice that they’re just answering questions about them but not asking any. That’s a turn off  

Hot boy or Hoochie Daddy summer….. it’s Hoochie Daddy summer for me!! since I moved back home to New York,(from LA) I really understand how valuable summers are, and I plan to show body-ody-ody!

What does the word love mean to you….

Love to me means to serve. Humbly giving of yourself unconditionally without an agenda or wanting anything in return. It’s rare. 

What are signs that means it’s time to break-up….

I might be the wrong person to ask that because almost everything shows me it’s time to break up lol my opinion might change once I find someone but if they lie, it’s time to break up if they don’t consider anybody else but themselves it’s time to break up, if they can’t apologize because their pride is in the way, it’s time to break up!! People’s egos are too big to take accountability for anything and that is a huge pet peeve for me. I’m not dealing with that and I don’t recommend it. They need to be willing to bend over backwards to keep you and make you comfortable! And vice versa. 

Jhene Aiko or Summer Walker….. jhene aiko!! I know the Youngins won’t agree but it’s The vocal control it’s the lyrical message and her overall Aura!! Plus I met her and she’s a sweetheart. (My type)

Have you ever been a victim of being way too attached when the other person wasn’t, and how did you handle it….

yes, I was hanging with this model and I’m so guilty because I look back like why? Outside of looks, the person was complete trash but I handled it how I handle everything…I’m a Capricorn and we are very logical so when there’s an obvious red flag, I’m out! 

How naughty do you like things with a partner, because for the right one I’m like Cardi B and need my mouth spit-in😂

ha!! As you should!! It gotta be nasty for me. I’m not tryna do nothing basic. For example me and old roommate tag teamed this gorgeous girl because she said dudes never make her cum.. so we went to work and he told our friends that he knew I was nastier because I kept spitting on her pussy like a porn star while I was eating it haha I’m like what? We always want more fluid! TF 

Let’s get into “Beyond” tell us what was the inspiration behind that and how much work did it take to make it happen….

“Beyond”was founded by our beautiful CEO Oyku Saran (@cheerswithoyku) who’s based in Miami. What makes the community so magical is that she brought together some of the most impactful warriors to make it all happen including one of the app developers that worked on the Equinox app. When it was time to open in New York, she made me a founding member to recruit and since then I’ve been hand selecting the people I felt would fit. Since the app is referral based, I never even talked about what I was working on because we didn’t want just anyone to be a part of the community. It has to be a unique experience where people feel comfortable to let their hair down. I knew I was the guy for the job because people have always told me how comfortable I make them feel and they tell me all their dirtiest secrets lol (even celebrities) and Ill take them to the grave. 

We all know that you’re a model we are a male beauty brand, what do you feel makes you beautiful and it can be anything…

hmm that’s a good question because I’ve always seen myself in the mirror, Its sometimes hard to see what’s so special. And some people who know me don’t always treat me well, so I forget how magnetic I am. But I feel beautiful when I go places and meet people for the first time and they literally melt from my hug or something like that.. it makes me feel really good haha idk if that’s weird to say but it’s honest. Also a good fit! When my outfits hitting right I be like yeaaaa I’m Daddy. 

On your post you talked about lies, and I feel like we all lie, I will lie to a cute boy in a heartbeat just to get him. What does you feel is too far when it comes to lies…

OK, I love this question because I had a convo with my friend in London about this,and I just feel it’s never good even when it seems harmless. The only time I think it’s OK is to protect yourself or someone else from danger (or jail time lol). I mean to protect people’s feelings, nah it’s just not worth it because people respect the truth. It really shows character, and it takes strength to be honest. He asked, “well what if the truth will make you lose that person?” and my answer was “then you didn’t deserve to have them.” It would be selfish to manipulate someone to your will. Steering someone in the wrong direction for your benefit, will always come back to you with karma. Now your example, like in a flirtatious manner or like during sex “whose pussy is it?” Fine who cares lmao. But in most cases I strongly urge people to practice truth. They will usually come back because they can’t find anyone else who will actually tell the truth. Trust me I’ve seen it happen so many times people get a little bit thrown off on my honesty, but they end up trusting me more than many people in their lives.