Urban Insider Magazine

I love discussing things from a personal narrative, I think it gives what I'm writing about more feeling, I do not reveal the names of anyone I'm romantically linked with just to clear that up. Now we all learn about gender roles and gender schema as it relates to society in sociology, but I want to discuss how those crossover in modern relationships. When our parents and grandparents were growing up you had the typical gender roles, the husbands went to work while the wives stayed home and were like June Clever, at least that's how my maternal grandmother was, now as society has changed you have a lot of role reversal, and you even have non traditional gender roles in non traditional relationships, we will get there later. What I want to talk about now is courtship, usually when a person expresses interest in you and you express it back, you all begin to date and the rest is history, now it seems as though guys want to be chased,and play the role traditionally ...

Let me start from the beginning I have been dealing with this guy for over a year now, physically he is stunning he could put any male model or actor to shame, the issue with us is that he isn't pleasing me sexually which frustrates the hell out of me. At the beginning of our situation he had me get rid of all my numbers, even my fuck buddy who was also good-looking but unavailable. I had no problem getting rid of my numbers because I had made a vow to myself that if I were to ever get in a relationship again that it would be forever, I also had no problem being single because my relationship prior to my current guy which was 7 years before him took a lot out of me. These were things he was made well aware of before I decided to let him enter my life, but when it came to sex he made the suggestion that I go outside of our relationship for that. I was shocked because no man I know would ever suggest that to anyone he is fucking with like that, so I kept my vow to...