Urban Insider Magazine

First and foremost thank you!!!! Now I’m not sure if you are familiar with Comospolitan magazine, well this setup for V-day is that from a guy’s perspective I love that you decided to bring up dating and relationships because as guys, we never really have the forum to really express that. With that being said what is your ideal first date and why….     Yeah, men can never express! And we’re expected not to have feelings so for most of my life, I didn’t, but I’ve been tapped in lately. For a first date I think it should be something very casual because the stakes shouldn’t be high. My ideal first date is something in nature like a scenic walk or a picnic. The reason is because nobody should be spending money on someone you don’t know and also it shouldn’t be somewhere loud because I think the conversation is the most important thing.  Is it ok to ask what your dating situation is like gender wise, and how do you really know if you’re attracted to that person or is it just ...

Let me start from the beginning I have been dealing with this guy for over a year now, physically he is stunning he could put any male model or actor to shame, the issue with us is that he isn't pleasing me sexually which frustrates the hell out of me. At the beginning of our situation he had me get rid of all my numbers, even my fuck buddy who was also good-looking but unavailable. I had no problem getting rid of my numbers because I had made a vow to myself that if I were to ever get in a relationship again that it would be forever, I also had no problem being single because my relationship prior to my current guy which was 7 years before him took a lot out of me. These were things he was made well aware of before I decided to let him enter my life, but when it came to sex he made the suggestion that I go outside of our relationship for that. I was shocked because no man I know would ever suggest that to anyone he is fucking with like that, so I kept my vow to...