As we experience this thing called life we have our great moments, and we have moments that we look back and say what the hell was I thinking, then sometimes the way recall things weren't as bad, once we have had time to reflect upon the experience. I'm saying all of that to bring up this subject called case of the ex, I was once told the reason we call them an EX is because they are an EXample of what we don't want in future relationships. However if that was really the case we wouldn't have our so called" type " because if our EX was so bad we wouldn't want anything that reminds us of them. I think while we are in the situation we get caught in the moment and make hasty decisions out of anger and hurt feelings and are often to prideful to try and stick it out.
I'm a lover I love hard because that's the only thing I have ever known in my life, so when I get in a relationship I want to share all of the love I have had in my life with that person so they can feel what I feel. It's not always received well during the time,
but just this past week two of my Exes who I felt were in the wrong which caused the chain of events that lead to the end of our relationship got back in contact with me after many years. I hold no hard feelings because if you love someone you never truly stop loving them the level of that love just either increases or decreases. I figure the reason they both got back into contact with me is because they realize what a good guy I am, I have done things that I don't think any average person would do unless they were married, not just dating the person. Now here comes the complication and this applies to guys and girls.....what if you dated someone fell in love and it didn't workout, but he or she returns to you years later wanting to get back together. The two of you still have some what of a connection, but now he or she has had a child and are no longer with the father/mother of that child would you consider being with them again???????
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