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Whichever Way The Wind Blows





I have had my fair share of situations, but none as complex as this one, my ex or whatever he may like to call himself is so fragile that he will listen to any devil that whispers in his ear. I don't place stock into every person that tries to come tell me something, because I assess who the messenger is first, and what they could be getting from bringing something negative my way, I involved people in our relationship but never from a negative standpoint, anyone who had negative things to say about you I cut them off which left me only with you. For me, my focus, and what I want that was fine I don't want negative people in my life who can't accept the person I choose to be involved with. You on the other hand have decided to listen to any and everyone that has brought you negative information about me instead of getting to know the person you wanted to be in the relationship with yourself, where is the logic in that I don't want to know what everyone else thinks of you I only want to know what I think of you, because I'm the one who has to spend time with you, I'm the one who has to feel like everything is right between us. See this is what happens when you let other people make informed decisions instead of you making them yourself, you pull the trigger on the wrong person, if someone is not happy with themselves and what they are doing they aren't going to find anything positive to give to you. You let them separate us with bullshit and endless lies, the same people who probably made up this fake profile of you, they will win because they are going to drag you down to hell with them and involve you in whatever bullshit they have going, I see they have succeeded in influencing you I told you this would happen and my predictions are usually right, my anger isn't with you but with your lack of strength. You have not one reason to be angry with me, I gave to you, I was everything to you whenever you needed me, so now you have to find a reason to be mad because you really don't have one, to see me walk away and actually build what I was trying to build with you with someone else will be my victory, no I don't wish any hardships on you, but you were wrong for walking away, you were wrong for going against your feelings, and instead taking on the feelings of other people. They won't care what you end up like, they won't care if you make it in life, because their goal was never to influence you to be better it was to get you on their team by any means necessary, always remember that any type of relationship may have it's outside opinions, but the core feelings and decisions are made up of just the people who are involved. Think long and hard about this one thing, if you need anything, do you think any of those people who tried to influence your mind with negativity are going to help you, I would bet my last dollar that they wouldn't lift a finger for you, some people will party with you, they will drink with you, but those people are not meant to be apart of your everyday decisions.

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